Tamil Coming of Age – Manjal Neerattu Vizha


The  Tamil Manjal Neerattu Vizha ‘function’ (‘Turmeric Bathing Ceremony’) is the last part of the coming of age celebration for a Tamil girl. This is done after the girl’s first menstruation, and marks her transition into womanhood. Most Hindu ceremonies are done by men, but this one is primarily done by women. It is a joyous time.

We were  invited the the function by the girl’s father, a rickshaw driver called “Babu.”

The Tamil coming of age ceremony starts, when the girl’s first menstruation begins, with a period of ritual seclusion. The girl sits separately on a wooden plank in a corner. Neighborhood women gather for a ceremonial meal that is served on banana leaves, after which they paint the girl’s feet with a mixture of red ochre, turmeric and limestone. This nalangu ceremony is enacted in the same manner whether the occasion is the first menstruation, as part of wedding festivities, or the celebration of a woman’s pregnancy.

For ritual seclusion, a kudisai (hut) is made of fresh leaves, from leaves of coconut, neem and mango, among others. This hut may be either inside or outside the house. The kudisai is furnished with all the things needed by the girl, including toiletries, clothing and vessels. Food is brought to her, and she takes complete rest. She is helped by other women while bathing. Daily bathing alternates between ‘head-bath’ and ‘ordinary bath.’ When she goes to the toilet, she must carry neem leaves and something made of iron, to ward off evil spirits. Special foods are prescribed for this seclusion, which is continued for 9, 11 or 13 days (it must be an odd number of days).

During the seclusion, the girl is instructed not to look at birds on an empty stomach, not to go out alone, and especially not to go into the pooja (prayer) room. She is warned not to leave leftover food where dogs could get it, because she would get a stomach ache if a dog ate the leftovers. Further restrictions symbolize her ritually dangerous status: she should not touch flowering plants (they might wilt), and she should not touch stored food items such as tamarind, rice or salt, which might be spoiled by her contact. The girl is relieved of the seclusion only after a purification ritual called puniya-thanam, which is the second step in the ritual process.

Above, taken from an article from www.unescap.org.

The third and final part is the Manjal Neerattu Vizha, a lavish public function, where the men folk and friends are all invited. The girl’s maternal uncles are supposed to gift her richly. The girl gets her first saree, which is made out of silk. The girl’s grandparents are supposed to gift her sarees. The girl wears the saree for the first time on this day. Gifts are also given by family friends. Elaborate pujas are performed, both at home and in the public function. Although the custom is on the wane, it is very much visibly present in the society, especially in villages in smaller cities.

The young woman is dressed almost like a bride, with a silk saree, and much gold jewelry. Some say that this function is the announcement of a marriageable woman, and serves as notice to prospective husbands and their families of a bridal possibility.

This photo essay shows the public function done on 15 March, 2009, in Seshadri Ashramam (Near Sri Ramanasramam) in Tiruvannamalai.

‘Hoardings’ (Billboards) announce the function. The one pictured below was put up by friends of Babu, the girl’s fathers, and has pictures of her decked out in Tamil finery and jewels …


and the father and mother and the friends.


Here’s another hoarding erected by the family, with pictures of the family members.


Like with weddings, a sign with the girl’s name in a heart greets us.


We pass by children playing in a rickshaw, maybe their father’s.


Getting ready for the ceremony

The ceremony is in a big hall in Seshadri Ashramam. Musicians are playing in the back of  the room, sitting on a platform made of tables.


In the very back of the room is the girl who is tonight becoming a woman. She is wearing a ‘half saree’ to begin with. There  is a photographer and a man with a video camera (and bright light) who is videoing the occasion for the family.


Chairs and people fill the room.


In the front there is a platform with a special chair and fancy decoration and flashing lights. This is where tonight’s ceremonies will be held.


In front of the chair, some gifts are being placed on metal plates for later.


Many Tamil ladies are here tonight, many dressed in their best wedding sarees (silk with gold threading). Carol was told to wear hers tonight.


The girl sits among her friends before the ceremony. Her chair is surrounded by other young women. None are in sarees; they’re all too young.


The procession

The ceremony starts with a procession from the Ganesh shrine just west of Ramanasramam. The musicians are here. They are playing now, and will lead the women in the procession.


The woman are gathered around the door, in front of the Ganesh shrine.


This procession starts from here, since Ganesh, the remover of obstacles, is always a good place to start anything.


Puja and gift items are laid out at the shine entrance.


Now the procession is ready to start. The puja and gift items are carried in front, by women family members, dressed  for the occasion.


The drums and pipes precede the women.


Right behind the family women, other women, neighbors and friends, join the procession, carrying the special items for tonight’s ceremony.


In the very front is a group of men, I guess, ‘clearing the way’ for the musicians and women.


At the entrance to Seshadri Ashramam, sadhus sit and watch the show.


The women gather by the entrance to the hall.


Then go into the hall and place the ritual items on the platform.



The hall is filled with about as many people that can fit in. Quite a crowd! Babu is just a humble rickshaw driver, but he has so many friends and family members who have come tonight. We saw only four other Westerners in here tonight. I think the crowd was maybe 400 people.


The platform is ready.


The girl walks  to the stage.


First a BIG mala is placed around her neck. I have seen similar ones only at weddings.



She pranams the people gathered here tonight.


Then she starts receiving gifts. First are from the maternal uncles (‘mama’ in Tamil)


Father and mother are to the left.


Other members of maternal uncle’s family presenting gifts.


Outside, money is being given to help Babu pay for the festivities. A record is kept of the donations.


Feeding has started. There will be a number  of ‘shifts’ at the dining hall. This is needed to accommodate the many people who came tonight. Friends and family members are serving. Among the servers we see familiar faces  from the rickshaw drivers we know.


Back in the main hall, women are  gathered, each going through a special rite which welcomes the new woman. Notice that she is now wearing a different outfit, this time her first saree as a woman.


First kumkum is placed on an idol, then on the girl’s forehead.


Then turmeric is rubbed on both cheeks and forearms.


A pot is waved in front of her.


Then a grinding stone.


Finally food, wrapped up in a banana leaf, is waved.


The last step is to take some kumkum dissolved in a plate of water and dab her forehead again.


More gifts may be given as well.


An Indian friend, Velan, suggested to Carol that she should go up and participate. She did so, and the Indian woman were so happy to see her do this (and wearing the right saree for the occasion. The wearing of sarees, they feel, is a gesture of respect for them and their culture).

One of the women helps Carol through the steps.


First the kumkum.


Then the rubbing of turmeric.


Waving of the food.


Waving of the grind stone. Boy, is  it heavy! Carol is surprised.


Oops, we almost forget the waiving of the pot. Carol is having a good time, and hopes that her lack of knowledge of the ceremony is not too offensive.


The final dotting with the  kumkum solution.


Then a moment together. The girl, now a woman, seems so sweet.


We get to the the dining hall. They are still serving. The servers make sure we get enough of everything (which is typical of eating with Indians; they want to make sure that you are satisfied.)


The next day we found out that today most of the rickshaw drivers, the men of last night’s festivities, are going to take the afternoon off and have their own festivities. This consists of playing cards (a double-deck version of rummy, played for money. They like to gamble.), drinking, and making and eating biryani. Today men do the cooking, without the women’s help.

We feel fortunate to be invited to these events. Most Westerners see nothing of this. Or they might just notice a procession going by, and wonder what it is for.

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8 Responses to “Tamil Coming of Age – Manjal Neerattu Vizha”

  1. Rajalingam Pillai Says:

    Jaya Sriman Narayana

    Dear swamiji,

    nicely written and excellent explanation…..fyi I am a malaysia tamil.

    thank you


  2. Srivi Ramasubramanian Says:

    Dear Richard,

    I enjoyed reading your blog. I had the pleasure of visiting Ramana ashramam about ten days back and climbing up the Arunachala.

    I am writing to you for permission to use the billboard on the manjal neerattu vizha for a piece that I am writing for my blog on posters in Tamilnadu. I will be sure to acknowledge you in the blog entry, of course.

    Thanks very much,


    Prof. Srividya ( srivishares.blogspot.com)

    • richardclarke Says:

      Certainly. Let me know if you need a higher resolution version of the photos.

  3. Vassan Pillai Says:

    >> MAMA is a very strong word now a days when it is taken out of context <<

    mAmA isn't the actual word! like many Tamil words this is a colloquialized version. Acutal Tamil word was "thAi mAmAn" thAi= mother, mAmAn = maternal uncle.

    Richard & Carol: Exceptional blog. I have not been to TN since 1997. So used the SW desert here in the land of enchantment, wa afraid to go back, not to mention the cost. Now thanks to you both, I better go back.


  4. Lors Krishna Says:

    Lors Krishna…

    […]Tamil Coming of Age – Manjal Neerattu Vizha « Living in the Embrace of Arunachala[…]…

  5. pumdv Says:

    people get attracted at certain time to certain places, objects, persons ect. The belief is that attraction is maximum when a girl attains the age or fertils, like the soil ready fr the next cultivation. The women period cycle is 28 days similar to that of Moon, and the eveils are supposed to relish on the nutrition of the bleeding uterus. Similarly the sea on the third day after full moon is calm and clear whereas dirty on the new moon. Compare this when people circumbulate tvm on the full moon day. it is great ceremony and it was the hindu custome that the first man that the girl get attracted is toward the brother of her own mother called Mama. MAMA is a very strong word now a days when it is taken out of context

  6. Manjal Neerattu Vizha function – coming of age and ready to wear a saree - Saree Dreams Says:

    […] can read an article about it here and you can see a full and detailed account of this ceremony at Richard Clark’s Arunachala […]

  7. satvicfood Says:

    thanks for sharing, it for sure is special what you are experiencing and letting the rest of us know :) the event reminded me of similar ones in other cultures that i experienced and may or may not exist anymore…

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